World of Sexual Fetishes

Katoptronophilia – Mirror Sex

Posted on December 29, 2014 by Sharon

One fetish some might say is for the vain is mirror sex. Having sex with another person or masturbating in front of a mirror. Honestly, the idea seems quaint now, as so many people are just bypassing the mirror altogether and skipping right to recording themselves having sex and watching it or uploading it to tube sites to get comments on it. The level of narcissism in today’s social media crazed society has never been more ovefueled and bizarre.

It used to be the racy couple that would have the mirror on top of their bedroom ceiling so they could enjoy the visual stimulation of of, or couples really into their own reflection during sexual moments would sneak into a change room and try to get it on in front of the 3 way mirror. I had one client once that frequently liked to talk about dressing room sex and the mirrors that would be used during such an encounter with he salesgirl he planned to fuck in there.

Some prefer it simple, prefer the darkness. Ones with body self image issues, my God what a nightmare it would be to see the flopping bits from angles before unknown to us. A mirror would only intensify such self doubts. Perhaps the solitary masturbation in front of a mirror or holding a hand mirror to see close-ups might not be as horrifying as another person seeing everything in the mirrors.

I admit to have masturbated in front of mirrors and with hand mirrors countless times in my youth and I think that should be encouraged in girls, you need to know your own body and it’s hard to understand there are grown women that to this day have never inspected their genitals with a mirror, let alone masturbated and watched it all up close in a magnifying mirror. It just adds a different visual element to our sexual excitement and there’s nothing wrong with that type of exploration.

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Tinkerbell Pee Pee

Posted on December 22, 2014 by Sharon

One of my more amusing callers this week was calling for small penis humiliation. Not an uncommon topic, but this one had named his cock, “Tinkerbelle” and referred to it as a she. It was quite odd to hear a grown man call his cock Tinkerbell, his “Tinkerbell Pee Pee” to be exact. Now I said is this because it’s so tiny your cock could only satisfy Tinkerbell? No, he had just named it that years ago.

Imagine going on a date with said man, and being introduced to his his cock like this, the laughs would begin before the clothes even came off. Most men do seem to have nicknames for their cocks I’ve found. One of my best clients is named Peter, and he loves when I call his cock “Little Petey”. Silly men, they do find amusement in such things. I’m not sure if most named their cock themselves, or if girlfriends named them for them and the name took. There really should be a study done on naming your cock-how it came to be.

Some might come up with insane names like “Pleasure Maker” or some such moniker, but I think something related to your own name seems a bit more expected. I haven’t really studied this too much just yet! I’m guessing not many have named them after cartoon characters though, especially female fairy ones. Whatever gets you off I guess. Heaven knows there’s a lot of things they could be called, and not very nice ones, but ones with small cocks, it’s really hard not to go down that cruel road, so it’s a good thing most into small penis humiliation like being made fun of, as it’s not difficult to do.

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Burn, Baby Burn

Posted on December 15, 2014 by Sharon

Ones into BDSM have all kinds of naughty little games they play, from mild to wild, and one of the games some are into is wax play. What is wax play you ask for ones not in the know? Wax play is playing with burning candles, as in dripping the wax from them all over the bodies of your submissive. It sounds a lot more painful than it really is. Candles that you burn to look at usually have a higher melting point than ones designed for wax play.

Some have as low a melting temperature as 110 degrees, so you’re hardly going to burn and scar your partner for life at that temperature. Many massage oil candles have this kind of a low melting point temperature, so the candle melts into a warming massage oil for you and your lover to slather all over each others bodies. Some however do like the higher melting point ones, to inflict a bit of pain, like 145 degrees. That you would be flinching at it dripped on your nipples or your cock or your clit.

I recall asking a guy once that was into wax play why would you want to drip melting wax all over your cock and he replied you’ve never been that horny before. I guess not, but I’ve been plenty horny and have yet to crave dripping hot wax on my lady bits. Some like to combine a blindfold so their lover can’t see where or when it’s going to hit their skin, a combination of sensations and sensory deprivation. Candle and wax play has been around for a long time and no doubt will remain as a fun little game between lovers into a bit of pain with their pleasure.

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Sexy Shemales

Posted on December 8, 2014 by Sharon

There is no denying the increasing popularity of shemales and trannies. It’s a rare day I don’t have one caller or another telling me about a recent trip to a tranny escort. One the other day was a young guy of 21, and he’d seen some tranny porn in his teens and couldn’t stop thinking about them and has now visited over 20 tranny escorts and is looking for a tranny girlfriend. Apparently he had one, but they moved away and he’s currently trannyless…

So many are desiring cock like never before, but are reluctant to go to a full on man. Many say they are not even attracted to men at all, and yet they are visiting and paying to fuck, or usually it seems fuck them, which is also odd. They say they aren’t attracted to men, yet they want the shemale to be the dominant one, it’s all quite perplexing really. They seem to be in denial. One of my best clients the other day sent me links to a new shemale escort he’d spent the afternoon with, a 22 year old Asian ladyboy. I try and not disparage too much, it’s not in my financial interest to do so, but I’m sure his wife would be horrified. It’s one thing to think your husband is fooling around with other women and turning a blind eye to it, it’s quite another to think you’re husband is paying to be fucked and dominated by a shemale/tranny/man with fake boobs and makeup on.

He always calls them “she”. I call them “it”. I think overall the level of what is acceptable is loosening, so ones are experimenting more and opening doors to other sexual realities a few decades ago they might never have even considered. It’s a changing world, and I can promise you shemales and trannies are a growing interest of many clients, I hear more and more about it every single day.

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Gimme That Hairy Pussy

Posted on December 1, 2014 by Sharon

Old fashioned and quaint, or disgusting and ungroomed, depends who you ask when it comes to the state of unshaved genitals. Anything can be turned into a fetish. Most people even though it’s more popular now than it’s ever been, most in society will not be doing this. They can’t be bothered. If we prefer to do it even if no one else will be seeing it, then that means we really do it for ourselves.

I could take makeup as a case in point. I personally wouldn’t dream of applying makeup to sit alone at home if no one was going to see me, yet even though no one but me sees my genitals, I keep myself shaved, I do it for me since that’s how I prefer it. Yet I can think of a couple of people I knew that in fact did apply makeup to sit alone at home since it made them feel better about themselves. Seems silly to go to the trouble to me, but to each their own. There is a movement to go back to the natural ways, no more leg or underarm shaving for women, let alone pubes. I was horrified to read of this, but I guess as long as I won’t be adhering to it myself, it doesn’t really affect me if others wish to let themselves go.

Some men are happy with any pussy, shaved or hairy. I’m not sure how big of a deal it would be if you’d ask someone to shave for you. Perhaps they’d think you should accept me as I am and not even ask. It’s honestly not a lot to ask, only a few minutes a couple times a week to keep it off, no great sacrifice of time or efforts. Yet I wouldn’t go back to hairy if asked, that’s just not what I want.