Spanking

Posted on November 14, 2011 by Sharon

One of the more popular fetishes I deal with hands down, pardon the pun, is spanking. Many, many guys are into it. One of my best, long term clients is heavily into spanking. He likes the idea of various female celebrities spanking him. I believe his mom caught him jerking off as a boy and spanked him as punishment. Several things he has said have led me to believe this.

Many like the idea of not only using your hand, but also the back of wooden hairbrush handles, wooden spoons, riding crops, all sorts of things.

Clients from England are very into spanking, it seems to have the root based in their school days and corporal punishment. For many callers I find the appeal of spanking goes back to childhood punishments. And I find more men want to be spanked than dole out the spankings themselves. I have had some, but not many.

The topic at hand here is obviously sexual spanking, not actual discipline. Many couples engage in playful spanking before sex. Makes them feel naughty….

One wonders if spanking hadn’t been used as discipline during childhood infractions, how many would still be interested in it today as a prelude to sex. I’m sure it would be nearly unheard of. It seems things from early childhood often hang around and get attention paid to them that otherwise would not and it has a lasting psychological impact on our sexual development. Most men I talk to that want to be spanked certainly had many spankings in their youth that this is the root cause of.

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Recreational Orthopedics

Posted on November 6, 2011 by Sharon

 

 

Why you ask would anyone want to wear a cast if they didn’t have to? I honestly can’t imagine. But there is a community of people out there that have what is called cast fetish.

I wonder if these people that are so gung ho on having a cast on have ever had to have one, and it’s not just a novelty they wish to try out and how different it is than ones that actually need them.

When I was a little girl, I broke my left forearm from falling off the swing set. I’d climbed onto the top and was doing somersaults on the high bar, around 7 feet off the ground. I was 6, and I fell on my arm and needed an arm cast for around 6 weeks. I remember having to have it wrapped up in plastic bags to bathe so it wouldn’t get wet. It was a hassle even at that age, I can’t imagine what it would be like with the responsibilities of an adult.

I type every day, a LOT, everything from taking the garbage out to doing laundry and shopping. I pray I never break anything ever again. Every time I think of climbing onto a chair rather than get a ladder, I tell myself it’s not worth breaking something and go get the ladder.

These cast enthusiasts are not going around and breaking their bones unnecessarily to get Dr.’s to put casts on them, but they are buying medical supplies and applying their own casts, or having other “casters” as they are known apply them for them.

Some have said ones into casts are into BDSM, but feel too naughty to allow themselves to be tied up, but by having a cast, it’s a more acceptable version of being immobile.

It’s a puzzling fetish to be sure. Some like to be in the cast, others just like to see pics of others that are in casts. Some are happy with a leg cast, others want a full body cast and immobilization.

One of my callers has a cast fetish, he’s the first one that made me aware of the fetish, and always sends me pics of women in leg and body casts before he calls. He likes to talk about me placing my cast covered leg in his lap as he tickles my feet and caresses the cast.

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Pregnancy Fetish

Posted on October 30, 2011 by Sharon

One of the fetishes we can explore that is fairly common is pregnancy fetish. It is showing a woman at her most womanly, heavy with child. Some men find this irresistible and seek out pregnant women to date and have sex with if they are not in a relationship with a pregnant woman.

They adore that her breasts are getting larger, her nipples darker, vaginal secretions increasing, and in many cases her libido increasing due to soaring hormone levels.

Nature has been said to give pregnant women a glow to make them more attractive to their mates to keep them around for the duration of the pregnancy since they would in nature be more vulnerable at that time.

The fear of getting one pregnant is obviously removed, since they already are pregnant. Some men find the swollen belly very beautiful and will even seek out overweight women if they can’t find a pregnant one if they have this particular fetish.

There is a market for pregnancy porn out there that is popular, and obviously there is a finite duration that an actress would have starring in these movies, and not that many women would feel comfortable showcasing themselves like that during such a stage in their lives when many feel unattractive, heavy and cumbersome.

Some women love being with child, and others plagued by morning sickness and a feeling of unwellness, it is a challenge to even get through it. Many do experience extreme horniness and have a high sex drive and continue to have sex to nearly until their delivery date. Others will close up shop from the time they find out they are pregnant until months after delivery, leaving their husbands to fend for themselves sexually.

 

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More Cushion To The Pushin’

Posted on October 22, 2011 by Sharon

Some men have a fetish for bigger girls. They are not looking to lay down with bone racks, they want a bonafide woman with something to grab onto. many men will only go out with a big girl, in which case, depending on the size of the woman, could be considered a fetish. If they like a girl under 300 lbs., that would be called a preference, but if they are looking at really super sized gals, then yes, that goes into fetish territory.

Some love the idea of being downright smothered in rolls of fat and blubber and mammoth breasts, practically cutting off their air supply. Ones into face sitting, also known as queening is popular with ones that love big girls. I’d guess the danger of having ones face enveloped in one so large proves exciting for the fattie lovers.

To make queening more comfortable, there are actually fetish pieces of furniture called “smother boxes” to still allow total genital access, yet the weight of the person isn’t on your head. I’d love to see the look on the face of your custom furniture maker when you commission your very own smother box!

There is a comforting quality to bigger girls many men seek. That’s certainly not to say all men that love big women have a desire to fuck mommy, but they are seeking a nurturing type of earthy woman when they seek out a larger gal. The bigger breasts, tummy and curves can prove an intoxicating mix to many guys.

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Body Writing

Posted on October 16, 2011 by Sharon

 

Body writing is a fetish, but not a common everyday one. Many that indulge in body writing look at writing on a woman’s body as sort of laying claim to her as their territory.

Not as permanent as a tattoo, but marking her nonetheless. I have someone that for years has been asking me to write his name and slut on my ass and send him the pic……As of yet I have turned him down. He likes to write on the girls he fucks. He said he likes to keep the face pristine though, and only writes on their body, not face. Usually with lipstick and eyeliner. Naughty words, like slut, whore, cunt, fuck toy, etc. It’s also called erotic humiliation, since the words used are usually what many would find derogatory.

I asked him why and he didn’t have much of an answer, other than he likes it and it turns him on. I guess that’s good enough. With many fetishes we don’t know why they turn us on, only that they do.

Many into body writing also do like to record their “work” on film and take pics of their handiwork. It’s certainly less permanent than a tattoo and no great commitment.

There are chocolate body paints that are used for this as well, not just lipstick and eyeliner are used. Only a die hard body writing lover would allow something like a marker to be used, as that would take weeks to wash/wear off and someone might see that you didn’t want to in the meantime.

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