One of the more popular fetishes I deal with hands down, pardon the pun, is spanking. Many, many guys are into it. One of my best, long term clients is heavily into spanking. He likes the idea of various female celebrities spanking him. I believe his mom caught him jerking off as a boy and spanked him as punishment. Several things he has said have led me to believe this.
Many like the idea of not only using your hand, but also the back of wooden hairbrush handles, wooden spoons, riding crops, all sorts of things.
Clients from England are very into spanking, it seems to have the root based in their school days and corporal punishment. For many callers I find the appeal of spanking goes back to childhood punishments. And I find more men want to be spanked than dole out the spankings themselves. I have had some, but not many.
The topic at hand here is obviously sexual spanking, not actual discipline. Many couples engage in playful spanking before sex. Makes them feel naughty….
One wonders if spanking hadn’t been used as discipline during childhood infractions, how many would still be interested in it today as a prelude to sex. I’m sure it would be nearly unheard of. It seems things from early childhood often hang around and get attention paid to them that otherwise would not and it has a lasting psychological impact on our sexual development. Most men I talk to that want to be spanked certainly had many spankings in their youth that this is the root cause of.
