World of Sexual Fetishes

Mistresses

Posted on April 8, 2013 by Sharon

Sexual role reversals in role play and fantasy very common, many men that have jobs of power like cops, judges, doctors, they often seek the total relinquishing of control in their sexual lives. They have total control in every other area of their lives and for sex they often like a woman to be in control. Dominatrix’s clients would mostly be men in some position of power. Seems funny to think of a cop crawling around on his hands and knees wearing a dog collar and being whipped with a riding crop.

Some are into very hard core whippings and spankings, to the point of skin being brought up in welts and red and lashed. There is no shortage of websites online that cater to ones into BDSM and these sorts of sex games. I was surprised to recently see a site you could buy handcrafted bullwhips on, I swear there is everything out there you could want and more if you look for it. I can’t say there are not men I have met that I wanted to use a bullwhip on, quite a few have deserved it thoroughly!

Imagine dungeons filled with lawyers chained to the walls, ha ha, good place for many of them, that’s for sure, to think the are paying to be there and be abused by leather clad Mistresses, spanked, fucked with strap ons, leather hoods, treated like subs and slaves crawling around on their hands and knees as their asses are whipped with riding crops.

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Bug Chasers

Posted on April 1, 2013 by Sharon

Now this next fetish is so bizarre, it’s hard to believe it’s real, yet indeed it is. Bug chasers are not one that seek to collect lady bugs or fire flies in jars, they are people that are actively seeking out HIV+ sexual partners. Yes, that’s right, they are looking to hook up and get a terminal illness. Oh I dunno why, because it’s just so fucking sexy??????? Are you kidding me???? Apparently there are people out there who fear it so much, they’d just rather contract it and get it over with so it’s no longer such a pressing worry.

Some partners in relationships where one is positive and one is negative feel it would be like an extra commitment to their partner to accept “their gift” and join them in their fatal disease. I’m betting if they talked to end stage AIDS patients about the suffering they have likely endured, the hundreds of pills they must take each week, etc., they likely wouldn’t be so romanticizing it in the first place. How can one romanticize getting a fatal disease? I couldn’t even grasp this was real, yet it is. I don’t know how I have missed it, as it’s been around for quite a while, yet I just never heard of it until recently.

There are so many things wrong with this fetish of purposely going after disease ridden individuals for the purpose of a slow suicide, I can’t even count them. I’m guessing the lucky ones that do get infected can then pass “their gift” onto other such misguided head cases. God help them all…..

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Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus

Posted on March 25, 2013 by Sharon

When does healthy appetite cross over into an addiction? Many say for any type of addiction it’s when it over takes your normal activities and interferes with your daily life, when the thought of it overrides other things and takes up more than a healthy percentage of your time. I am not a man, so I cannot think like one. A client of mine I would deem a sex addict and I had a conversation the other day about his voracious sexual appetite and how it seems to take precedence over all else in his life.

He’s married and supposedly has regular sex with his wife, she’s not a cold fish he never gets anything from, but his need for variety has him spending thousands on escorts every month, going after the wives of friends, it’s never ending and it’s insatiable. I’ve never heard of anything like it. Scary to think there’s likely lots more in his situation. I certainly think paid sexual encounters should be legal. It makes me wonder though how many men out of fear of being caught are refraining from using them?

When your every day is consumed by orgasms, masturbating a few times and then with the next escort you can plan on getting to, and with some the need for variety is such I recall one man saying, no matter how beautiful the escort was, he’d only ever be with her once. So many women, so little time. He wanted new, and frequently. Nothing like the first time with a new woman, he said. They want that newness, that feeling, every time. The need for that is unthinkable to me. I don’t understand why once you find something you like, why don’t you wish to repeat it? Men truly are from Mars and women from Venus, I guess.

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I’m Wetting My Pants!

Posted on March 18, 2013 by Sharon

Many people are familiar with the fetish of golden showers and even drinking urine, but there is a fetish out there of the tamer variety involving urine called “Omorashi”. It’s about people that love to see girls wetting their pants and having very full bladders. That is the name the Japanese came up for this particular fetish. There are fetish videos involving women having wetting accidents that greatly arouse some men.

There has been a caller that has called me several times asking if I ever had any wetting accidents, so obviously he has this fetish and gets aroused by it. There are even Japanese game shows called “Desperation Tournaments” about ones that need to urinate very badly and who can last the longest. Many times as most of us know if you have a full bladder it can indeed make you feel more horny and the pressure inside can become an exquisite pleasure. Masturbating with a full bladder can feel wonderful, until you start to leak….So best leave that for outside or the shower at the very least!

Some men just love to think of a dressed up lady not being able to control it any longer, that they are just going to leak any second and seeing it trickle down your legs, wetting your clothes, seeing you standing in a growing puddle of your own urine. Yet they don’t have any wish to be peed on, they just like the losing control aspect of it all. Let’s hope we can wait until we get to the washroom, but if we can’t someone will be getting hard watching us!

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Hicupps Are Sexy?

Posted on March 11, 2013 by Sharon

I have had guys call for calls about sneezing, nose blowing and farting and burping, but now I have heard from one with a different fetish-one for hiccups. Apparently some find watching women shaking uncontrollably as their bodies are wracked by hiccup after hiccup sexy. Not quite sure where the appeal lies here. It’s extremely annoying to have the hiccups. I have breathed into bags to nearly the point of fainting to get rid of them, the idea that someone is turned on by this is amazing to me.

I think it’s that we cannot control them that seems to be the appeal of these sorts of fetishes like hiccups and sneezing, nothing at all we can do to stop it or control it, it’s beyond our control. This loss of control seems to be precisely the thing that appeals to the men with this fetish. I have looked online after learning f this fetish and there are indeed websites and forum boards for ones into this. One thing I noticed was many sites even have a soundfile section where you can listen to ones as they are hiccupping. Imagine masturbating to that sound!

You can make yourself sneeze sometimes by pepper, can blow your nose, burp with a few mouthfuls of pop, but how you would make yourself hiccup, I really cannot picture. Maybe they go after drunks? No clue. As fetishes go, it’s fairly harmless, like many it’s just odd, no real harm. So pass the champagne, it just might make me hiccup….