World of Sexual Fetishes

Pump It Up, Baby!

Posted on December 31, 2012 by Sharon

We’ve all heard of penis pumps for guys, usually used by ones that have erection difficulties before the invention of Viagra and actually not very safe, they can burst blood vessels and be permanently damaging to the penis. But there are also “Pussy Pumps” for females, I am not sure as to the damaging ability of them, but they are designed to engorge blood into the vaginal lips and clitoris and make for a more sensitive genital area and therefore a more satisfactory one.

It never ceases to amaze me the devices that are available out there for ones seeking to try new avenues of sexual pleasure and adventure. The reviews of them I have read were fairly mixed, some liked them, but an equal part number felt they were a waste of money and of little use. I guess like most things you need to try it for yourself and see if it’s something you will find enjoyment from. But the price of many sex toys can be a bit expensive for trying something one time and deciding you don’t like it. Most of these sex toys also cannot be returned for a refund unless they are defective, not just because you didn’t like it.

Some of these devices seem downright bizarre in my opinion, but I’m convinced for everything there is someone out there that will like it and derive some pleasure from it. I’ve only gotten swollen pussy lips the old fashioned way, from actual stimulation, not from vacuum pumping some odd device on them that’s designed to make it get engorged faster. What is with the rush? Are we on deadline for orgasm? Do we have people beating on the door? Seems a bit silly to me to be honest, but I guess if some like it, who am I to say it’s bad for everyone? Enjoy…..

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Come On Baby Light My Fire

Posted on December 24, 2012 by Sharon

Pyrophilia is the fetish one gets from arousal of setting fires. Many of us have heard about and are familiar with pyromania, yet not all pyromaniacs, very few actually, do it for sexual excitement. Some even get aroused by watching or talking about fires, they don’t even have to actually set them. Just as some that are into necrophilia get into the career of being an undertaker, some that are into fire get into a career as a firefighter or having something to do with the fire department just to be around fires.

If one is merely consumed with watching fires, it’s not that big of a concern, they can always make sure to have a fireplace, it’s the ones that want to set fires that are the concern. Fire does have a very powerful draw, it can be extremely romantic to make love in front of a roaring fire, that’s in its place within the fireplace. And it can be a very relaxing thing to look at the dancing flames as well, similar to looking at a fish tank with swimming fish, it’s a very calming thing to focus on and view. How many channels on Christmas morning have a picture or show of a burning log in a fireplace, since it’s a pretty, relaxing backdrop to look at and have on in the background.

But ones obsessed with destruction and not caring about the destruction of property or the lives of innocents that might be lost due to their setting things on fire, that is very dangerous. If some want to somehow control their desires and have “controlled” fires of garbage dumpsters or something, yet even fires we think are controlled can quickly get out of hand. Wind in the wrong direction, or a host of other situations might make things turn devastating in seconds and beyond our controlling it. Some that set these fires get so aroused at the power of the flames they go home and masturbate afterwards they are so aroused. Many fetishes can be destructive to people and things other than ourselves and it’s not fair to expose others to dangerous situations due to our sexual fetishes.

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Here Come’s The Bride…

Posted on December 17, 2012 by Sharon

When it comes to crossdressing there’s all sorts of different styles guy love to get into. Some are only into lingerie and stockings and that’s as far as it goes, others like to go the whole nine yards and do clothes, makeup, wigs, heels, the lot of it.

I spoke to a guy the other night-only the second I have spoken to into this particular fetish-he was wearing a bridal gown, yes a bridal gown. He had always had a thing for these types of dresses and had started years ago in communion dresses and then moved onto prom dresses and now had finally taken the plunge into full fledged bridal wear. He proudly told me the hours he spends on eBay searching for just the right gown he feels can give him the masturbation experience of his dreams, it’s all quite grand to him and he gets all excited when he’s ordered another dress and is awaiting its arrival for him to try on and jerk off in-as if he’s “christening” it.

Seems fairly harmless I suppose, yet if any boyfriend of mine was in such a getup, he wouldn’t be lasting long, I can promise you that. He wasn’t quite sure what it was about bridal gowns that got him all excited, but they held a special place in his heart like no other type of garment did. The thought of him sitting on his bed in his satin and lace dress, complete with veil no less, is quite the mental picture. Hey, I guess whatever makes you happy….

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Human Furniture

Posted on December 10, 2012 by Sharon

Some into the BDSM fetish lifestyle treat their slaves as though they were a piece of furniture. It’s called forniphilia. Slaves have been made into living tables and chairs and the like for hundreds of years by Masters. It’s an act of submission to stay in the position you are placed in for hours and hours on end, no matter how uncomfortable it may be to stay still.

Ones into bondage may place their charges in this state of immobility for extended periods. It can make the slaves feel useful to their Masters to be there for them in this submissive manner. It’s more often women that are made into the objects of furniture more than the men, since more women do enjoy being used by their Masters. That’s not to say there’s not tons of submissive men out there, I know for a fact that there is, it’s just nearly everything I have read about this topic and pictures I have seen, it’s women in this role, it’s their version of being a living doormat as it were. Something many of us women have a problem with in relationships.

There is some interesting pictures available out there, with everything from women as tables and chairs to upright lamps. There is never a shortage of people involved in odd fetishes, no matter the topic, it will be turning on someone, somewhere. A movie many in the fetish world have enjoyed is called “Secretary”, there’s many sorts of unique bondage scenes in that, one where she is made to remain seated for days, even to the point of going without food and wetting herself, since she does as her Master tells her to do without question.

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Apparently Bald Is Beautiful

Posted on December 3, 2012 by Sharon

Now I have talked to guys that had a hair fetish, a wig fetish, different colors of hair fetish, but the other night one took me by surprise, I must say. I didn’t even know if he was joking it was such an insane conversation. This man claimed to be attracted to bald women. He started out by asking if my hair was short. I said not really. It’s actually not far from my waist, which most men love.

Then he asked if it had ever been short. I said yes, I did wear it short at one time. How short was it, he asked. This seemed a bit odd…Then he said he had to tell me something he doubted I’d ever heard before, and damned if he wasn’t right. He said he got really turned on by bald, yes bald, women. I didn’t know what to say to such a statement. He claimed the smooth, shiny head was very appealing to him. Now, I guess in all honesty I have heard a few women go on about bald men like that, I never understood why, I only would want a man with a full head of hair.

I jokingly said to him, though it may have been in bad humor, but it’s the first thing that came to my mind, that the women recovering from cancer that were going through with chemotherapy and that had lost their hair would have a real fan in him. Oh my God, he got all excited and said that was an excellent idea! As if the poor women aren’t going through enough, they need some nut attracted to them because they are bald going after them…..I don’t know what to say, I have honestly never heard of such a fetish before, bald women. Oh well, maybe he will fall madly in love with an alopecia patient.