When I started dating, I was not ready to just right into sex, but of course was curious to try things. I had a serious boyfriend and he so wanted to fuck me, but I just wasn’t ready. I’d let him run his cock up and down my slit and play with my clit with his cock head and it was fun and he’d be able to make me cum by doing that. I was also not wanting any chance of getting pregnant, so he’d always shoot his load onto my tummy. We did this for many months before I actually was ready to have sex with him.
It can actually heighten things if you delay them and only go so far before pulling back. I had a lot of fun doing this. I think it frustrated him a lot more than it id me. I wasn’t meaning to be a tease and he knew it was not going to be allowed inside, but he was always begging me to let him do it. It happened eventually, but for a long time it was just the non penetrative sex thing we would do. The things you do when you are young and not quite ready.
I would give him hand jobs, and he would finger me and we would masturbate and watch one another, but actually allowing him to fuck me, that took a while for me to be ready for. There’s really no rush, you have the rest of your life to have sex, but when you’re young, you want to experience as much as you can as fast as you can, just how it is at that age it seems. Playing is fun as long as both people get to cum, no matter how you do it. Relax and enjoy the journey.