“I Need Some Advice”

Posted on May 22, 2023 by Sharon

Some callers are calling for advice and not to get off, surprisingly enough. Some have sad stories and are seeking genuine help for their dilemmas. One man called today that had a health issue in the past, a prostate issue, not uncommon with older men. Of course I knew he was going to say this had affected his ability to have sex, and yup, that’s where it went. He went on to say his wife had always had a high sex drive, and while he pleasured her orally regularly, he felt this just wasn’t enough for her and he wanted to give her permission to find a lover on the side.

I thought this was a very considerate thing to do, and even if she didn’t take him up on it, at least he would have offered. Then he started coming up with all these ground rules. How it should only ever be with the same guy no more than twice to avoid feelings, how once a month should suffice. His “rules” were making it a why bother with all these restrictions kind of situation in my mind. I doubt he will even get up the courage to have such a conversation, but he’s struggling with what to do to keep his wife satisfied and trying to come up with workable solutions, but his conditions are such I doubt anything will come of it.

He’s not the first, nor I’m sure the last, that calls with these sorts of issues. You feel bad for these people, and offer what advice you can that seems to make sense given the circumstances they explain to you. There’s a lot of sad and disappointed people out there suffering at times through no fault of their own and you struggle to give them an answer they want to hear or can live with.

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Teasing My Guy

Posted on May 15, 2023 by Sharon

You don’t always have to have a cock in a pussy to have satisfying sexual encounters. One thing I’ve always enjoyed is teasing a guy with non penetrative sex. Oiling up and grinding on them can make you cum the same way that dry humping can. I make sure my clit is positioned over the base of their cock and just move back and forth. Eventually, you will get to the point where you cum without their cock even being inside of you. The first time I suggested this to a boyfriend, he wasn’t too impressed. He wanted to be in me, not just against me. Needless to say, I won him over.

Of course it’s just a once in a while thing, but can feel just as nice. You can totally get a guy to cum as well. Then rather than aim your pussy over the stiff base of his cock, you can concentrate on the tip of his cock, which is of course far more sensitive. He will be squirting in no time if you figure out how to position yourself just right. You can use cowgirl or reverse cowgirl for this non penetrative sex move. Some guys really into watching your ass would rather have a view of it and have you facing away from them. You can make both work.

The guy will be begging to let it slide into you. It’s fun to tease them, and if you just stay at the base of their cock, they may not be able to cum, since it’s just not as sensitive. Once you’ve cum until you’re worn out, toss them a crumb then and allow them to cum. Some love edging, so it’s not difficult to get them to agree to such prolonged teasing. I love me a man that can edge until he’s told to cum.

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Your Cheating Wife

Posted on May 8, 2023 by Sharon

Some callers call for advice, rather than just hot talk to get off to. One caller was mentioning a situation with his wife. She went to a bachelorette party and slept with a stripper when she was drunk. She felt horribly guilty about it and came home crying about it begging his forgiveness. While he wasn’t happy about it, he said he understood and they should put it behind them, but he can’t. He said she feels so guilty, she can’t stop crying about it. He told her it’s ok, things happen, but she won’t stop.

I suggested maybe a weekend away to get her mind off of it, but he called back the next day and said she didn’t seem excited about the idea. I said ask her if it would make her feel any better if he slept with someone else so it made it even. Apparently that made her cry even harder and she said no, of course not. I said just to give it time, let life go on as normal, hopefully she can come to terms with it and put it behind them. He’s worried she won’t be able to do that.

Some people do foolish things, regret them, then can’t let the incident go. Who knows what will happen. He said he’d call in a few weeks and let me know how things are going along. It’s pretty decent of him to forgive and forget such a stupid action in the first place. People call for advice, or to confess things that have happened. They often have no one else they can tell such things to, so they seek out phone sex operators as some kind of counselors at times. It’s odd, but it happens a lot more frequently than one would think it would.

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Couple Masturbation

Posted on May 1, 2023 by Sharon

Sometimes actual sex can be a bit too much of an effort if you’re a bit tired or pressed for time. Some couples still masturbate together and enjoy the sights of themselves enjoying one another. It’s honestly also important to show your partner how you like to be touched. Watching one another pleasure yourselves is an excellent way for that to happen. They can’t read your mind, but literally watching how you like your genitals stimulated gives them a pretty good idea of how you’d like them to stimulate you.

Some ladies like a firm touch on their clitoris, others not. If a guy comes grinding on a lady’s bits hard and she finds it uncomfortable, that’s not a good thing. If he sees her touch herself softly, he’ll know to use the same sort of touch when he’s doing the touching. It can be very sexy to watch one another. Many callers often reveal one of the types of porn they watch the most frequently is ladies masturbating. They like to watch it a lot, especially since many of their real life partners they’ve had would never masturbate in front of them to let them watch. Not all ladies are comfortable with that, especially if they might be overweight and more self conscious of their bodies.

Masturbating together can of course often lead to actual sex between the two of you, but it’s just another option in how to enjoy yourselves sexually. Men tend to masturbate more even if they are in a sexual relationship, since they just have a higher sex drive. Consider asking your partner if they’d like to watch while you do if they aren’t in the mood. Most men though mention they do it in secret, since their women don’t like it that they do at all. It’s odd, yet very frequently heard.

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I Get Lost in Your Eyes

Posted on April 24, 2023 by Sharon

Not too often does a caller mention eye contact during sex specifically, but once in a while one will. Usually during oral sex is when they seem to enjoy it the most. Some might feel a bit uncomfortable with that prolonged eye contact during such a moment, hence why some prefer darkness. That level on intimacy can be a bit much for some people to handle. One man in particular said he loved it when a woman looked deep into his eyes when she had his dick in her mouth and he just adored it when she did. It would be a bit of an odd thing to ask for specifically though.

Gazing lovingly into the eyes of one you love while you’re being intimate with one another can be a wonderful thing if you’re both into it. If one partner is a bit shy or inexperienced, they might blush or feel overwhelmed by that and look away or just keep their eyes closed. It always seemed odd in movies if someone kisses with their eyes open, since your faces are so close together. That is one time eye contact is a bit weird. They’re so close, they’re distorted and blurry, especially if you normally wear glasses.

On the phone during phone sex, it’s often best if you don’t need to worry about that at all. You usually would be horrified if you could see some of the callers, though some send pics and look fairly normal, others are anything but. So mystery can go a long way and no worries of laughing or putting anyone off. Sometimes laughter can overcome us at an inappropriate moment and nothing would ruin a moment more than if you burst out laughing if you had eye contact and weren’t ready for it. Just ask if you’re unsure if they enjoy it.

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