You don’t always have to have a cock in a pussy to have satisfying sexual encounters. One thing I’ve always enjoyed is teasing a guy with non penetrative sex. Oiling up and grinding on them can make you cum the same way that dry humping can. I make sure my clit is positioned over the base of their cock and just move back and forth. Eventually, you will get to the point where you cum without their cock even being inside of you. The first time I suggested this to a boyfriend, he wasn’t too impressed. He wanted to be in me, not just against me. Needless to say, I won him over.
Of course it’s just a once in a while thing, but can feel just as nice. You can totally get a guy to cum as well. Then rather than aim your pussy over the stiff base of his cock, you can concentrate on the tip of his cock, which is of course far more sensitive. He will be squirting in no time if you figure out how to position yourself just right. You can use cowgirl or reverse cowgirl for this non penetrative sex move. Some guys really into watching your ass would rather have a view of it and have you facing away from them. You can make both work.
The guy will be begging to let it slide into you. It’s fun to tease them, and if you just stay at the base of their cock, they may not be able to cum, since it’s just not as sensitive. Once you’ve cum until you’re worn out, toss them a crumb then and allow them to cum. Some love edging, so it’s not difficult to get them to agree to such prolonged teasing. I love me a man that can edge until he’s told to cum.