Sometimes actual sex can be a bit too much of an effort if you’re a bit tired or pressed for time. Some couples still masturbate together and enjoy the sights of themselves enjoying one another. It’s honestly also important to show your partner how you like to be touched. Watching one another pleasure yourselves is an excellent way for that to happen. They can’t read your mind, but literally watching how you like your genitals stimulated gives them a pretty good idea of how you’d like them to stimulate you.
Some ladies like a firm touch on their clitoris, others not. If a guy comes grinding on a lady’s bits hard and she finds it uncomfortable, that’s not a good thing. If he sees her touch herself softly, he’ll know to use the same sort of touch when he’s doing the touching. It can be very sexy to watch one another. Many callers often reveal one of the types of porn they watch the most frequently is ladies masturbating. They like to watch it a lot, especially since many of their real life partners they’ve had would never masturbate in front of them to let them watch. Not all ladies are comfortable with that, especially if they might be overweight and more self conscious of their bodies.
Masturbating together can of course often lead to actual sex between the two of you, but it’s just another option in how to enjoy yourselves sexually. Men tend to masturbate more even if they are in a sexual relationship, since they just have a higher sex drive. Consider asking your partner if they’d like to watch while you do if they aren’t in the mood. Most men though mention they do it in secret, since their women don’t like it that they do at all. It’s odd, yet very frequently heard.
