What is it about being degraded sexually that arouses some of us so much? Not everyone feels this way of course, but many men love to be degraded and made fun of for having a small penis or being of a different race, humiliation is very popular. Many women also enjoy being called a slut or shore or treated not very nicely when having sex, there’s a rush that comes from hearing “whore”, “slut”, some like “bitch.” The fact is some very much get off on being called names, it heightens things and makes us cum harder.
Some go so far as physical abuse, cock and ball torture, being caned, whipped and flogged to the point in having red slash marks all over them. Some came from backgrounds where they were abused and these incidences left lasting impressions on them and they are in effect reliving them by getting into abusive and degrading relationships and doing it on their terms. Being called a slut or whore can feel oh so naughty and yet sexy when you’re getting to be a dirty girl and guys know this and can use the words when you’re fucking or even during phone sex.
It’s always good to discuss if you like this first to make sure your partner is also comfortable using these terms, some will not be ok with it and it will never be natural to them. A submissive guy is not going to feel comfortable calling the woman he considers his Mistress a bitch.