World of Sexual Fetishes

The Next Great Sex Toy-Toilet Brushes

Posted on April 22, 2013 by Sharon

I have talked to many guys that have placed odd objects up their rear ends, but I recently heard of an even more odd item being used as a sex toy. I couldn’t believe it, yet when I looked, I found no shortage of articles and porn on it. Apparently toilet brushes are the newest sex toy. Go to the dollar store and you can get one cheaply. There are so many things wrong with this I don’t know where to begin. Injury for one. Please use items that are meant to be used as toys. Household items are not meant for that and can create issues.

Imagine going to the hospital emergency room when one of these play sessions goes awry, and they can and do and can cause life threatening injuries to say nothing of the embarrassment factor. Some are just using the handle which is bad enough, but I read on a fetish forum that ones are actually inserting them with the bristles up their rear end. The rectal tissues are very fragile and prone to injury and bristles of any kind are not a good idea to be inserting there.

You name an item, I can guarantee you someone, somewhere is, has or will be using it as a sex toy, in their pussy or up their ass. Honestly, if people are so dumb as to use objects like this, they deserve the embarrassment and shame that comes from an emergency room visit, what the hell did you expect…

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Just Say No!

Posted on April 15, 2013 by Sharon

In today’s oversexed culture, perversions and fetishes seem the norm. I read someone asking the question is chastity the worst perversion of all? No, if ones wish to live without sex in their lives it doesn’t make them a pervert, just a little repressed I’d assume. Many claim the problems in the Catholic church would be reduced if they allowed the priests to marry, then they wouldn’t be going after the kids.

To my way of understanding, by making the priests and nuns take vows of chastity, they feel they can devote their life to others and not be concerned with a family of their own that would otherwise take up their time, although other religions have ministers and rabbis and they are allowed to marry and have families and still serve their congregations. It’s ironic that the chastity imposed on them is the very thing that brings about much of the perverted behaviors in the first place. By denying them sex in a normal relationship they act out inappropriately to ones around them they shouldn’t. And a great deal are closeted gays and lesbians as well.

And some people willingly wish to save themselves for marriage, a quaint idea that can lead to some unhappy surprises for all involved. I’ve spoken to several guys that married virgins and they had not so much as discussed sex with these women beforehand and then were surprised and shocked that these women had no plans of engaging in oral sex, or sex that frequently at all of ay kind. When you think of the number that religion and guilt has done on people, it’s criminal, absolutely criminal.

V-victims
A-abuse
T-tears
I-innocence
C-cover up
A-allegations
N-negligent

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Mistresses

Posted on April 8, 2013 by Sharon

Sexual role reversals in role play and fantasy very common, many men that have jobs of power like cops, judges, doctors, they often seek the total relinquishing of control in their sexual lives. They have total control in every other area of their lives and for sex they often like a woman to be in control. Dominatrix’s clients would mostly be men in some position of power. Seems funny to think of a cop crawling around on his hands and knees wearing a dog collar and being whipped with a riding crop.

Some are into very hard core whippings and spankings, to the point of skin being brought up in welts and red and lashed. There is no shortage of websites online that cater to ones into BDSM and these sorts of sex games. I was surprised to recently see a site you could buy handcrafted bullwhips on, I swear there is everything out there you could want and more if you look for it. I can’t say there are not men I have met that I wanted to use a bullwhip on, quite a few have deserved it thoroughly!

Imagine dungeons filled with lawyers chained to the walls, ha ha, good place for many of them, that’s for sure, to think the are paying to be there and be abused by leather clad Mistresses, spanked, fucked with strap ons, leather hoods, treated like subs and slaves crawling around on their hands and knees as their asses are whipped with riding crops.

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Bug Chasers

Posted on April 1, 2013 by Sharon

Now this next fetish is so bizarre, it’s hard to believe it’s real, yet indeed it is. Bug chasers are not one that seek to collect lady bugs or fire flies in jars, they are people that are actively seeking out HIV+ sexual partners. Yes, that’s right, they are looking to hook up and get a terminal illness. Oh I dunno why, because it’s just so fucking sexy??????? Are you kidding me???? Apparently there are people out there who fear it so much, they’d just rather contract it and get it over with so it’s no longer such a pressing worry.

Some partners in relationships where one is positive and one is negative feel it would be like an extra commitment to their partner to accept “their gift” and join them in their fatal disease. I’m betting if they talked to end stage AIDS patients about the suffering they have likely endured, the hundreds of pills they must take each week, etc., they likely wouldn’t be so romanticizing it in the first place. How can one romanticize getting a fatal disease? I couldn’t even grasp this was real, yet it is. I don’t know how I have missed it, as it’s been around for quite a while, yet I just never heard of it until recently.

There are so many things wrong with this fetish of purposely going after disease ridden individuals for the purpose of a slow suicide, I can’t even count them. I’m guessing the lucky ones that do get infected can then pass “their gift” onto other such misguided head cases. God help them all…..

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Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus

Posted on March 25, 2013 by Sharon

When does healthy appetite cross over into an addiction? Many say for any type of addiction it’s when it over takes your normal activities and interferes with your daily life, when the thought of it overrides other things and takes up more than a healthy percentage of your time. I am not a man, so I cannot think like one. A client of mine I would deem a sex addict and I had a conversation the other day about his voracious sexual appetite and how it seems to take precedence over all else in his life.

He’s married and supposedly has regular sex with his wife, she’s not a cold fish he never gets anything from, but his need for variety has him spending thousands on escorts every month, going after the wives of friends, it’s never ending and it’s insatiable. I’ve never heard of anything like it. Scary to think there’s likely lots more in his situation. I certainly think paid sexual encounters should be legal. It makes me wonder though how many men out of fear of being caught are refraining from using them?

When your every day is consumed by orgasms, masturbating a few times and then with the next escort you can plan on getting to, and with some the need for variety is such I recall one man saying, no matter how beautiful the escort was, he’d only ever be with her once. So many women, so little time. He wanted new, and frequently. Nothing like the first time with a new woman, he said. They want that newness, that feeling, every time. The need for that is unthinkable to me. I don’t understand why once you find something you like, why don’t you wish to repeat it? Men truly are from Mars and women from Venus, I guess.